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“Your presence, leadership, and energy created an environment I couldn’t have imagined… The way you allow shadow and constellation work to unfold with precision, clarity, and strength deeply impacted me. It affirmed my own path as a facilitator.”
— Lucie, France“I am honored to have learned from you. The courage I carry today as a leader comes from your example. You are a true gift and inspiration.”
— Blaine MacIntyre, Life Coach“Vince tirelessly gives with genuine love. When you’re in the room with him, you know you matter.”
— David G“Though we’ve never met in person, your vision and commitment to this work has impacted my life in a powerful way. What you’re building will serve generations.”
— Bill C“You exemplify transformation and legacy. The men who follow will stand on the foundation you’ve helped build.”
— Joshua“Your presence was deeply soothing… gentle, grounded, and powerful. I left feeling called back to something essential within me.”
— Salomé“I came into Vince’s training thinking I was there to learn how to lead men. I didn’t realize I was the one who would be transformed. I walked in a 54-year-old boy… and left a 54-year-old man.”
“In one weekend, Vince dismantled everything I thought I knew about manhood and rebuilt me from the inside out. His presence and mastery are unlike anything I’ve experienced.”
“This work changed my life and gave me absolute clarity about my purpose. If you’re ready to step into the man you know you can be, this is the man who can take you there.”
— Omar Pinto
“You have a rare ability to create a space where men feel seen, cared for, and challenged at the same time.”
— N.C.“Vince has a gift for sensing the highest potential in people and calling it forward with clarity, strength, and compassion.”
— A.P.“After the ceremony, pain I had been living with was gone. I don’t know what released — but I’m deeply grateful.”
— SuzanneI’ve been sitting in a sacred weekly container guided by Vince “Matoska” Chafin for 2+ years. The wisdom, structure, accountability and heart-centered brotherhood have been a life altering and beautiful experience. The story I tell myself is that doing it alone without the support of fellow brothers and initiated elders is near impossible. Matoska pours his life force into making the world a better place, and because of him it is. If something is speaking to you in the fire of your chest, and you desire to lead a more integrated life where you are “driving the bus”, I invite you to lean in. In my experience, Matoska has proved to be an established and trusted elder, which is needed in the vulnerable depths of our transformation.
— Kyle M
Vince has this way of holding a room that doesn’t flinch. There’s edge to it—he’ll take you right up to the place you’d usually bail—but it’s not force. It’s more like being met by someone who already knows you’re not as fragile as you think you are.
It lands somewhere between the blunt honesty of an uncle and the kind of fathering most people didn’t get but recognize immediately when it shows up.
Hard to explain without sounding insane.
Easy to feel once you’re in it. Love.
— John Wolf